What People are Saying
When women speak about Insatiable Scarlets, their words often return to the same truth: safety, softness, and the kind of liberation that only unfolds when every boundary is honored.
“As a first timer, I was obviously curious and excited but I was also very nervous. What will happen? Will it be too much? Will I feel objectified or rejected?
Those insecurities and nervousness melted away very quickly. The way the weekend was masterfully curated and facilitated was absolutely perfect.
I was blown away by the softness and sensuality.
My eyes and soul were opened to so many possibilities.
I would attend another Insatiable Scarlets event in a heartbeat.
This is not a sex party, it’s a sex retreat.”
— Lia from Mexico shared this after her first experience with us“From the moment of booking my interview, the process was steeped in integrity and safety.
As a woman, to be involved in an event where safety, boundaries, and the speaking of desires are the baseline meant I got to truly lean into my edges knowing I was surrounded by people who would hold, care, and celebrate me.
What I witnessed and experienced inside of this container of two nights of desire, witnessing, and participation is indescribable.
It was so much more than a god damn sex party.
None of this would have happened without the care and integrity of how the space was curated by B & N.”
— MelissaFrom the moment of booking my interview the process of considering and applying to this incredible event was steeped in integrity and safety.
As a woman to be involved in such an event where safety, boundaries and the speaking of desires is the BASE LINE, meant I got to truly lean and open into my edges with the knowledge that I was surrounded by people who would hold, care and celebrate me./
What I witnessed and experienced inside of this container of 2 nights of desire, witnessing and participation is actually indescribable with words that fit.
But I will try... it is not expected to truly use such words for a "sex party" and therefore we can agree it was SO MUCH MORE THAN A GOD DAMN SEX PARTY.
The kindness, acceptance, authentically, absolute beauty inside and out, the sharing of energy, the cathartic opening of my heart as I was taken and supported to the places I have dreamed about for years...
Beyond comprehension actually. And the reality is none of this would have happened if it were not for the care and integrity of how the space was curated by Brianna and Natalie
— AnonymousHonestly, I was a little nervous showing up to my first play party, but I was surprised by how much of the night was just amazing, deep conversation. The bonding and connecting felt just as important as any sexual engagement, which wasn't something I expected. I never felt pressured at all because consent was clearly a key part of every single interaction. That actually made me feel super safe to just hang out, watch, and socialize without participating in any activities. I had an absolute blast just being in that energy and connecting with everyone. I actually ended up going out on dates with three different individuals I met at the event, and I keep in touch with a fair amount of the people I connected with months later!
— Anonymous What a life-changing experience. I feel like a more free, loving, and bold person now that I've attended an Insatiable Scarletts event. From the interview process to the Welcome Zoom call, to the first interactions with beautiful, soulful women and finally to a comforting hot tub session with all my new friends at the end of the event, this 2-night experience was one I will never forget. Even when I had moments of being in my head or freezing up at the event, both men and women would lovingly give me the comfort I needed without even knowing what was going on in my mind. There were first-timers I bonded with, and experienced veterans I learned from. So many moments of serendipity, sensuality, sexuality, and overall liberation. I massaged and pleased women, they massaged and pleased me. Fantasies were fulfilled all around. Everything was safe and consensual. This has opened a portal for me and how I interact with life. Thank you to the hosts and to the incredible guests that I am now connected with for years to come. I highly recommend this event to any beginner. Be bold. Be insatiable.
The event was highly curated - I liked that people were high quality, respectful and fun. The space was gorgeous! The attention to detail was the standout thing for me from the hosts - hosting, sending reminders, setting down ground rules, responding to last minute messages, even catering to small requests like needing help with a tampon, checking in to see if everyone’s feeling ok - they had it all covered, and that’s what set it apart from other events I’ve been to.
— Male
Los Angeles, CA
Beginner, first-timer